General discussions in here!
By KiwiMum2000
#20089
Ok..... I have been with my husband over half my life. We married young and have 2 kids (13 and 15). All we do is argue, I find him negative and our life goals no longer match. We moved to Australia in 1999 and have limited family over here. He would move back overseas in a heartbeat, but would never leave his kids. We own our house too.

Basically he knows I want to separate but doesn't believe it. He wonders why I am in the spare room and thinks I am negative! Hmm..... What do you do first? Should I look for a place and just move out with the kids? I dont know.... How did you start the process?